Sunday, 9 March 2014

Is celebrating a days womens day is enough to honour her?

Yesterday our country celebrated womens day with lot of speeches including their political agendas to attract wemen votes.Does it meant that she regained her lost respect? Does it meant that she striped her wounds? Does it meant that she got her shoulder equal to men? 
Was all that a day's drama or we really consolate Nirbhaya? All these questions automatically make us to confront the truth hide behind this speeches. 
Why a girl find herself uncomfortable to roam outside after 10 in night and that too in the capital of our incredible country. All this is just because of brutal thinking of a male part of our society. We don't let her to have a glorious life just because of her gender difference. 
Not only in the modern world,history revealed that we people raised finger over the sanctity of our godess Sita. We unclothed her izzat just to win the game of gamble in Mahabharat.
It past more than a year but Nirbhaya is still fighting for justice. She is still weeping for what she martyred herself a year ago. She got thrilled when she look a five year old girl to become the victim of same incident. She never expected such a brutality from her opponent gender. Our inhuman activity is making her to curse herself as she is finding her lesson to vein in the storm of modernisation. 
Even in modern era of fast moving technology,many ladies burn themselves after getting irritation from her family for giving birth to a baby girl. Not only this,many ladies comitted suicide after getting forced by the family for the abortion when find a baby girl in their womb. Many parents advice their daughter not to dress western when going outside. Why we people always put limitations over the flight of a girl only instead of teaching our male child to respect the women,only because of a differance in the gender? Whenever some inhuman activity become the headlines of our news channel,our politicians accused our female side for their western look. Opposition party ministers move to to the home of victims to unpack their consolation prizes. Many of the times a victim move to police station to lodge the comlain get humiliated by the police men. Accused side threatnes the family and filled the pockets of police and lawyer to waive the case.

Our technology made us to go beyond the sky but created some sideeffects in thinking as many of the time we come across the incidents that our daughters are chitted by some anti-social elements of society through social network. It doesn't meant that flying technology is leaving ash only but there is need to change the mindset of our youth. 
These anti-socials sometimes stained the image of our country by hunting some foreign tourist girls. There are many cases pending in the indian courts against such accused.
So the conclusion is that by celebrating or distributing sweets on one day can't honour our women. We need to respect them everyday,everytime.
Just one episode of 'Satyamev Jayte,Crime petrol or Savdhan India' can't change the mentality of such people. We need to be strong against such crimes,need to teach our child of such things,need to start some awareness programes. Government should take strong action against so called 'rapiest',courts should make fast decesion as it is not looking in todays fastrack court but this doesn't meant a common man to be violent and take law in their hand. I hope all these will help to empower the strength of a women in our society.
Happy belated womens day not for one day but for everyday.
Thank you

Thursday, 9 May 2013

My success story


I passed B.E. in mechanical in 2010,fought a lot for 1.5yr for the job in industry but couldn't meet with.Then my elder brother told me about ibps po-1 and filled my form but i was not at all interested to change my field so given the exam and forget that. while i was running in delhi for job,i suddenly got a message of clearing written with only 130 marks  in ibps po.I got some happiness but forget that in few days.Then my brother provoked me for ibps specialist officer and i cleared that too. Now it was time to clerk-1,i given and qualified but doesn't knock a big and remain untouched with just 136 in scorecard.Then i joined a coaching(2nd may 2012) and given SBI clerk(27 may 2012) and IBPS PO-2(17 june 2012). SBI result brought me in tension while ibps po-2 brought some happiness and encouraged me to prepare for RRB officer and clerk. I made both, officer(126),clerk(127). Then given po-2 interview but just got 52.52 and is in waiting till now but that can't discourage me and i passed clerk-2 and given interview which was superb,don't know why they given only 50 in interview.Since then i never give any single day to pass without any analysis on FB.I was little bit sure about my selection and asured everybody that i will do it this time but there was a tension in a corner of my mind that if something gone wrong then how will i watch my face in the mirror. Finally the great day 6 may 2013 came,i was busy in the inauguration ceremony of my newly made home  ,meanwhile i gone through FB on mobile and seen that ibps has declared final allotment but can't see the notification as my mobile can't open pdf,i was 5 km. away from my computer and was in hurry to see the notification so ran immediately but was in great tension throught  the way and was praying GOD for some gud news. When i just touched the gate of my home,my brother opened the notification and said- HO GYA NARENDRA KA.
    This golden words are still roaming in my mind.
   Later on i received a message for checking mail and i checked it and found written- BANK OF BARODA.
   I am very happy and thankful to GOD,my family,my friends and to all those who directly or indirectly wished for my success.
  I also pray to GOD for showing the same day to all other fighting aspirants.Good luck friends and have a good time ahead.

Thursday, 2 May 2013

Sarabjit singh's murder - A tornedo


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Its almost tears in my eyes when i heard Sarabjit singh's sister on one of the news channel.
What the hell is going on.Another attack,another martyr,some more cries and few consolation.I mean kab tak chalega ye sab.
Thode din news channel wale usko hero banayenge,TRP badayenge,parliament me kursiya fenki jayegi,hangama hoga. Fir koi naya scam hoga,fir koi naya director film banayega,fir amitabh bachhan,anupam kher ya koi aur celebrity blog likhega,tweet krega,1-1.5lac log retweet aur favourite krenge aur sab bhul jayenge.

Hmesha ki tarah aaj b kuch neta wo hi ghise-pite dialogue bolte nazar aayenge.

Manish Tiwari:- Ye Pak ki napak harqat h ise katai bardasht nhi kiya jayega,sarkar is bare me vichar kr rhi h.

Shushil shinde:-  We condemn whatever did by pakistan, me uske parivar k sath hu aur is mamle me puri janch karwaunga.

Salama khurshid:- Me pak ke videsh mantralay se is ghatna par charcha krunga.

Kamalnath:- Hum sansad me pakistan ke khilaf virodh prastav layenge.

Manmohan singh:- whatever pakistan did is an inhuman and government will respond it soon.

Shushma swaraj:- Sarkar in sab ghatanao ka jawab de.

     Ese hi bhut sare comment pdne ko milenge.Fir sannata chha jayega,fir sab gumsum ho jayenge.

Sarkar kehti h ki hum iska jawab denge. To man niya pradhanmantriji hme ye bataiye ki 2 sainiko k sir katne ka jawab aapne de diya kya aapne? Hyderabad blast,jaipur blast,ahmedabad blast,mumbai blast jesi sari gatnao ka jawab de chuke ho kya aap?

Muje fakra h us maa par jisne ye kha ki me ab bhi chup nhi bethungi, me ab bhi ladungi un sare sarbajito k liye jo aaj bhi pakistan ki jailo me band h.

samaj nhi aata aakhir kab tak chalta rhega ye sab.Aakhir kab tak yu hi bharat maa ka sina chhalni hota rhega. Aakhir kab tak hum yu hi ek dusre ke khun ke pyase rhenge. Kab tak hum kuch achha krne ki bajay desh ki ek moti rakam dusro ki jaan lene me kharch krenge. Kya mil jayega ye sab krke hme. Are marna to ek din sabko hi h to fir kyo kuch achha krke nhi mrte. Kisi ki jaan lekar,kisi ko vidhawa to kisi ko anath banakar konsa bda mukam hasil kr lenge hum. Ye sawal hmesha jehan me uthta rehta h ki kya hum aaj bhi gulam h,kya hum abhi bhi asurkhshit h.

He bhagwan is insan ko thodi sad budhhi de,apni asim kripa se fir se ise apne manviy mulyo ko samjne ki shakti de. JAI HIND JAI BHARAT

Friday, 15 March 2013

Today's India & the possible change

                              
         Today,India is facing intense atmosphere of struggle with our self. People have filled with anger for govt and govt in turn is just moving ahead towards a big vote bank. Is this a country for which Gandhi fought? There is fire in the mind of youth and they want to bring changes but the question  is how to do this? If think for a minute,then the answer strikes is our attitude. Our attitude towards the attainment of a nation with happy faces,commitment to do something in favour of humanity,will to produce an atmosphere of peace and love.
        Now the problem again is how? Then the simple solution is our willingness and energy. These two things can make any person to crunch any stone. I request every youth to come ahead and contribute for the welfare of our country.
    

Sunday, 29 July 2012

Are we really living in a independent country

Heard a lot about freedom in 1947 but when i come across the current situation of country,it makes me feel that we are still slaver,however the scenario has changed a little bit. Britishers are replaced by politicians while taxes remains the same.
      sometimes i come across one question that what i will tell when my forthcoming generation will ask about today's India?
     Sometimes feels shame as if i have born in a country ran by such a corrupt and irresponsible ministers though it makes me feel delight that i am living in a country of crusaders like Annaji,Arvind sir,Manish sir,Kiran Ma'm and prashant sir(sorry if forget anybody).